Years ago, there were no laws that regulated domestic violence. A mans home was considered to be his castle and what he did inside that home, regardless of whether he beat his wife or kids, was his own affair. Women who sought help for spousal abuse were often told by community members and even church clergy to endure a beating and were often blamed themselves for having brought the domestic violence on themselves. Those who did concede that this behavior was inappropriate would often blame alcohol abuse for the problem.
Today, there are laws in every state that affect how domestic violence is handled. They vary from county to county, although police officers are required to file a report and make an arrest in the case of any domestic violence action. In many states, there is a cooling off period where batterers are put into jail for twenty four hours, giving others in the home to go to a shelter or another place. The batterers are usually given a certain period of time in which they have to stay away from the victim. A victim can receive counseling and also get a restraining order against those who perpetrate domestic violence against them. Needless to say, the laws against domestic violence have gotten stricter as time has gone on, although many victims drop the charges against the abuser.
In most cases of domestic abuse, the police are called repeatedly to a home because of this problem. They file a report, the batterers go to jail, get out and then the couple reconcile. A wife beater will often blame a problem for their behavior and promise to change. This usually does not work and the violence continues In most cases, domestic abuse will start to escalate as time goes on. It might not only include the spouse but also children as well. When it comes to child abuse, authorities will remove children from any dangerous situation and place them in the care of relatives or with the state. Teachers, scout leaders and others have an obligation to report any signs they see of child abuse to authorities so that it can be investigated.
There are laws today that protect innocent people in a family from batterers. In many states, those who are convicted of domestic battery are ordered to undergo a battering intervention and prevention program (BIPP Classes) that teaches them to modify their behavior so that they do not continue to perpetrate violence. These programs work when the batterers realize that the fault lies within themselves, confront their past as well as their own crime and then learn behavior modification so that they do not resort to abusive behavior in the future.
For Anger Management Classes and Battering Intervention and Prevention Program – BIPP Classes in Houston, TX call 281-477-9105 and/or send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org.
Gregory Kyles, LPC
Anger Management & Domestic Violence Institute